Pink Tie Event

Friday night from 6:30-9:00pm Chloe and will attend the 2009 Daddy Daughter Dance sponsored by the City of McKinney Parks and Recreation association.

Our big date takes place at the McKinney Recreation Center along with 125 other “couples”.

I am really looking forward to it and for Chloe, it is the highlight of the year. I have really enjoyed seeing her excitement about it ever since I told her about it earlier in the week. I gave her the cutout advertisement from the parks and recreation magazine that looks like this and she has carried it around with her constantly all week – she even has it by her side when she gets in bed each night. She looks at it as she falls asleep. Needless to say, she is eagerly anticipating this grand event. She calls it “the ball”.

So she already has her dress picked out. She’s going to look like a true princess, that’s for sure. Last night, I asked her if she wanted to help me pick out which shirt and tie I should wear with my suit. I don’t wear suits very often, so she probably had never seen my full tie collection. I thought she was going to fall over when she saw I had a pink tie. She was pretty surprised and I immediately knew she wanted me to wear it, cuz it was the obvious choice to match her princess dress.

But then something strange happened. I asked her which one I should wear and she said the black one. Hm. Really? Then I asked, “Are you sure you don’t want me to wear the pink one?” She said, “Yes, but I think the other daddies will think its silly.”

Isn’t that sweet? She didn’t want me to feel silly wearing a pink tie, thinking I’d be worried what other people thought about me, a man, wearing pink. I’m amazed at her ability to think like that, being only 4 years old. I’m more amazed by her choosing something that she thought I would like better, even if it meant the opposite of what she wanted.

What a sweet little girl! I sure am looking forward to our date at the ball tomorrow night. I’ll post some pictures at a later time.

One Comment

  1. Jennifer says:

    I saw this on Cori’s blog and loved it! You are such an awesome dad to (1) go to a ball with your little princess, and (2) to wear a pink tie :) I’m sure you were the envy of all the other princesses there without a pink-tie-wearing-daddy on their arm!